Comments on: Falling in Love: When did it become more complicated than calculus?

By: hannahkaty

hannahkaty — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 04:39:46 +0000

That is awesome Melanie. It is crazy the way that life and love unfold sometimes. Thank you for sharing!

Best,

Hannah Katy

By: melanie gao

melanie gao — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:17:50 +0000

How funny that you would mention the smile across the room – that is exactly how I fell in love with my husband. I was in a room full of people and I needed help. He was the one who noticed me and smiled at me, so I decided to walk over to him and ask for help. I walked past dozens of other men and went straight to him. It was a simple, fast decision that would change the rest of my life.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 23:24:54 +0000

I *totally* agree with you!!! I love love love looooooove this post, my dear! I don’t that falling in love is something we can plan, prevent, make happen…I think the harder you try the more the real thing evades you. Something I wish I would’ve told my younger self is to just live, enjoy and let my life unravel as it would, without worrying about tomorrow because, really, what’s the fun in knowing before hand, anyway? And who knows better than Fate? Seriously.

By: DCPrincess

DCPrincess — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:20:19 +0000

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By: Emily Jane

Emily Jane — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:16:13 +0000

Haha, oh thank you! I need all the support I can get – these girls are strong competition! xx

By: Amy --- Just A Titch

Amy --- Just A Titch — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 03:27:57 +0000

I believe in, hope and pray for simple love, too. Great post.

By: hannahkaty

hannahkaty — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:00:57 +0000

I like that, very insightful. Don’t fall in love, climb in love. That is great.

Thanks for sharing.

Best,

Hannah Katy

By: TSG

TSG — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:46:12 +0000

“Don’t think, just fall. Don’t evaluate, read up on the latest data, make a pro and con list, scrutinize, judge, ask for third and fourth opinions. Just Fall.”

I have a friend who fell in love, married and divorced. She once wrote : “Don’t fall in love, climb in love.”
I think that we have to listen to our gut feelings but we shouldn’t forget to listen to our heads. If we see red flags or something is off, we know not to give our hearts so although I think we should keep it simple and not read up on the latest data, we should definitely evaluate. If we don’t watch out for these things, we’ll fall…and what happens when we fall? We get hurt.

By: hannahkaty

hannahkaty — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:59:41 +0000

Be sure to let me know how it all plays out! Glad I could be of help.

Best,

Hannah Katy

By: hannahkaty

hannahkaty — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:59:06 +0000

Agreed Kyla, I think that we can come up with this picture perfect narrative in our head and it only takes one happening to side sweep our expectations and send us in another direction. But that is the beauty of life, the ambiguity and the possibility.

Thanks for the input love. It is always great to have.

Best,

Hannah Katy